| The Married Mistress |
[May. 17th, 2008|01:45 pm] |
| [ | Current Location |
| | Las Vegas, NV | ] |
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| |  giddy | ] |
| [ | music |
| | a. Symbiont - Lucky You | ] |
For those of you who don't follow along with my MySpace blog, um, yes, that's right, I *cough, cough* got married. C'mon, we all knew it was coming. The whole experience was a fun story, though. I came home from work Thursday night. I had called earlier and told Jessica to get dressed up. I pulled out the kneeling bench and had her kneel in front of me. I told her how much I loved her, how I am committed to her and all that, then pulled out the rings from a rose ring box and had her get on one knee and asked, "Will you marry me?". She said, "Yes." Then I said, "Preferably tonight."
She was of course shocked, but said yes. So I hurried her out the door down to the courthouse. The court clerk experience was a fun one when we presented our IDs to the lady. She saw the two ladies names and had to get her supervisor involved to approve the transaction. We showed more ID and the lady couldn't argue that, indeed, we were legal to be married in Nevada. Although gay marriage isn't legal in Nevada, it did become legal in California that day, and so what a better way to celebrate that law than to get married ourselves. Of course, that's not the reason I did this.
We left the court and headed downstairs to meet my good friend who I had called to meet us to be our witness. She drove us around to all the places to follow and was so good to us. There were several men waiting for us at the bottom of the stairs trying to sell us on their chapels to get married in. I had them bargain between themselves and chose one of the chapels. The men were telling us how they wanted to get us because we were an interesting, fun and not typical couple. They said they always get boring couples coming to get married and it's not everyday that you see a goth chick and a transsexual getting married. That kept me laughing for awhile.
The first chapel was not only in ghettoville, it was more pricey than the guy quoted us, so we left and came back to get the other guy's information for the other chapel. We stopped by the Marriage Commissioner's Office. We asked the security guard there what was the procedure and price for having them marry us. She told us how much it was, however, she also threw in that she didn't think we could get married. I told her we were legal and have a marriage license from the court and basically gave the impression to mind her own business.
The Marriage Commissioner's Office reminded me of a jail, so we left there and went to Stained Glass Chapel. This place was absolutely perfect. It had a beautiful gazebo, fountain and bridge outside upon arrival. The gazebo was covered in rope lights, kinda like my dungeon. Hey, it's the closest thing I'm getting to what I'd ideally want. I mentioned that we'd probably make a fortune if we ever created our own place where you can have collering ceremonies or SM weddings. How fun!
The ceremony was simple..."Do you want to marry each other?" "Yes." "Do you promise to love each other forever?" "Yes." "Then I pronounce you married." "Cool!" And that was it.
The lady congratulated us and we chatted about alternative ceremonies/relationships, etc. If I were to recommend a place to get married to all my freaky friends, it would be this place. She was so open-minded that honestly, I think we could do our collering ceremony there.
Then we took pictures in various places around her place (which are posted in my pictures).
So there you have it. I'm very happy, madly in love and very excited to have such a wonderful person in my life, now forever. I hope to have a party here soon, which will now become "house and bun warming and reception party". Oh, yea, for those who don't know, I finally bought a piece of Vegas. It's a beautiful two-story, three bed, two and a half bath house. Even though it's hot as hell, I'm in heaven!
The dungeon is coming along nicely. It should be done soon. It's done enough now that I'd feel comfortable with a few small changes, to have a party. |
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| Old men from the 80s |
[Nov. 7th, 2006|07:37 pm] |
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I actually found some time to relax a bit this weekend.
On the way home on Thursday, I won tickets on the radio (caller #7) to go see Devo on Saturday night. It was more funny than fun, but I enjoyed the concert. Amazing that old men in their 50's can still rock out and jump around on stage like that, but the music was fairly good still. My son though it ironic that I won tickets to a band that sings the song "Whip It". haha.
Still dating Dana and getting to know her. I enjoy the time we spend together. She went with me to the Friday night munch, Krave and then kinky class on Saturday night before I went to see Devo.
Although I managed to set the dungeon up, I haven't had a chance to use it. Looks good, though. eh.
Went out and voted today. I hope everyone else did as well. Short week at work because I've been sick yesterday and today and then they let us leave early for voting and then Thursday is a holiday for us anyway, so yay, a mini vacation, of sorts. I just wish I was feeling better.
I actually have nothing planned this weekend, but I'm sure that'll change soon enough. It'd be nice to lay around the house and catch up on cuddling and watching movies. OMG, there goes my dominant image, eh? haha.
Miss you all. |
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| Halloween events |
[Oct. 29th, 2006|12:07 pm] |
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| | cheerful | ] |
I had a total blast this weekend. Still baking stuff daily for Halloween. Can't wait for that part to be over. It's like a challenge now to see if I can last. I'm taking the day after Halloween off to rest.
Thursday night I went out to karaoke with friends. It was a costume party. I dressed as a vampire (pictures on MySpace) and Dana went as Josie from Josie and the pussycats. Wish I could look that good in outfits like that. There were some really great costumes there. A couple dressed as a keg and St. Polly's Girl won the costume contest. I won $50 in a door prize drawing.
Friday I took Micheal down to the Atomic Testing Museum. It was interesting and I enjoyed my time with him.
Saturday I stayed home and watched scary movies with Micheal and Dana for the first half of the night. Then we went out to see the Rocky Horror Picture Show at the the Onyx Theater. It was SO much fun. There were actors acting out the movie, and they did a most excellent job. Dr. Frankenfurter was played by a girl which kinda ruined the whole "tranny" effect for me, but she did look just like him in the movie. Micheal got up because he was a virgin to the show and got sacraficed. He was SUCH a good sport about it and laughed just as much as everyone else did. He had a great time. I was worried he wouldn't, because I see him as conservative, but he's growing up to be such a fun kid.
I remember my dad taking me my first time when I was 13. I'm glad I got to share the experience with him as well. I'm pretty sure that's what started my tranny and SM fetish off at such an early age. I freaking love Halloween! |
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| Tis the Season |
[Oct. 23rd, 2006|12:06 pm] |
Went to the munch on Friday night. Had a good time there. It's nice to see more people coming out to events. Got to introduce Dana around more. I hope people like her enough. She's a little bit too quiet at first, but once you get to know her, she won't be quiet. haha.
Krave was also fun. I wore a new outfit there and everyone looked stunning.
Saturday night I went to Fright Dome at Circus Circus with azzy and Micheal (my son). The lines were incredibly long and the haunted house that we managed to finally get into after three hours of waiting left a lot to be desired. I suggest no one go there. It's a total and complete waste of money.
I've had hardly any sleep again this weekend. I think for the past two weeks I've averaged about four to five hours of sleep. But I know this is the hardest month of the year for me, because I push myself to squeeze in all the Halloween fun I possibly can.
I've been baking (omg, yes, I cook once a year). I make something each day to bring to work. I did manage to decorate a little bit at work also. And, as happens every year, I can't wait for Halloween to be over. I'm exhausted already.
Things with Dana are rocky, but new relationships can go that way sometimes. I think the world of her, though. She is very entertaining and beautiful. I really enjoy our time together. Now if I could just get some sleep, things would be great.
Oh, and I also went to see the Hearse parade on Saturday night. I want one now. They were all decked out with coffins and looked stunning. So yea, when I have my castle with my fully stocked dungeon, I'll make room for the Corvette and Hearse. Never give up on your dreams. |
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| Happy again |
[Oct. 15th, 2006|12:05 pm] |
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| | happy | ] |
Life is busy. Sometimes I just don't know where the time goes, but I'm starting to realize that living in Vegas, a lot of it is spent in the car. Takes forever to get anywhere here. So I decorated my car again for Halloween. Not as much as last year, I suppose, but the hand with black painted fingernails and fishnet sleeves is hanging out the trunk and the skeleton is hanging from the rear-view mirror.
I've started taking the bus to and from work which saves on money and lets me get things done during the hour drive there and hour drive back.
I'm supposed to start the annual baking today for Halloween. Just haven't found much time for dragging out the Halloween decorations.
I do have a new personal interest. I posted a new picture of her and I in my pictures section. We've been spending a lot of time together, and I'm finally happy again. I did manage to get to the munch on Friday night and went out and had a blast at karaoke with a bunch of friends afterwards. I missed the Ren Fair because of the weather and by the time it cleared up, I already had other plans. Maybe next year. I even had a costume to wear to it. Bummer.
I look forward to next weekend and going haunted house hopping. Life is good here. The job is awesome and I get a new girl starting on Tuesday which will cut down on the workload quite a bit.
My son Micheal is doing well in school and is about one of the best kids I could've asked for. He's going to be Disco Dracula for Halloween and has even been growing his red, curly afro out since last year. That's my boy...dedicated to Halloween. |
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| Freedom |
[Sep. 18th, 2006|12:03 pm] |
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| |  artistic | ] |
I'm happy to say, I'm in the new apartment. I've said this before, but I'll reiterate...I took a giant step backwards moving to Vegas, but I'm trying to make the best of it.
I love being in my own place again with my own stuff. I love being surrounded by the things I've gathered through the years, and I missed them. The ambiance is slowly coming together. A friend of mine walked in the living room and said that it looked like a museum. haha.
Any ideas on how to turn an apartment into a dungeon? Talk about a challenge! I have to come up with cleaver ways to make a small space work, and to somehow decorate it so that it doesn't look...well, like an apartment. I've bought some wall covering that looks like gray brick wall to lay the foundation of the backdrop. That's a start, I guess.
I'll have more time to go out and party with my friends again as I quit the Halloween Experience. I just couldn't hang. I missed my social life and my friends.
I'm hoping to have this place cleaned up enough soon to at least hold a munch here. It's definitely no professional set up like I had in Reno, but it's a start. |
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| Age induced psychosis |
[Sep. 12th, 2006|04:47 am] |
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| |  exhausted | ] |
Until this point in my life, I refused to admit that I'm getting old. After starting the Halloween store, I realize now that I'm no longer in my earlier years and that jobs like that belong to teenagers. I haven't stood up for 8-10 hours since I was a teen. My body battles with my mind refusing to cooperate, yet my stubborn ways won't let me give in to it. I'm not sure how much longer I can last. I'm trying to set a goal of getting through till the season is over, but I don't think I'll make it. Having no days off to recover is making me a pile of melted jello.
I miss going out. I'm determined enough to know that in the end, this will all pay off, I'm sure, so for now, I'm hanging in there.
I have this coming weekend off, if that's what I should call it. I don't have to go to any jobs that actually pay me, however, I will be moving and unpacking all weekend. Thanks to all my friends who are coming through for me to help me with this move. You guys are awesome.
The promotion for the new job is about ten times as busy as the old position. This would be a good thing if I had more time to train with the girl before she goes to her new position. Having too many things on my mind is just not allowing all the information to stick in there. I go home exhausted mentally during the week and physically on the weekend. Bad timing to have all this happen when I don't have a sub at home.
Somehow I managed to go to the Friday night munch. I was lucky to have made it home without passing out in the car. No need to drink, I already feel drunk most of the time now anyway. haha.
However, under all this exhaustion, I have good spirits. I need to tie someone up, beat their ass and get laid, I think. That'll put things back into perspective. |
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| Updates |
[Jul. 28th, 2006|06:38 am] |
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Life has been too busy to write in here, but I'll take a few minutes to catch up real quick.
I flew my sons down from Reno last weekend, then drove them down to Los Angeles for the annual visit with my parents. It was good seeing family. Funny to see my younger brother had grown his hair out long and is now a lil skater boy. We both looked at each other...him in his skater attire, me as my usual goth self, and said, "Wow, cool. I like it." Made my annual trip to the beach to reflect on the past year and what has changed since then. I believe last year's trip, ashley was by my side. It was fun hitting the club in Hollywood and flogging her on stage back then. I suppose I could've went again this year, but it wouldn't have been as much fun going alone. I made plans to go in two weeks when I go pick up the kids with my cousin, but she backed out. So I guess it'll wait till another time.
I've been slowing down on the partying lately. I still go to Krave on occasion. I stopped going to the 80s night, because the singer took a vacation and the replacement left something to be desired. But somehow, my weekends are still filled up with fun activities. I went to a Kinky Karnival a couple of weeks ago. I dressed up in vinyl and that was probably a huge mistake as the heat here is enough to make you pass out. I didn't, thankfully, but felt like I was standing next to an oven the whole time. I have this adorable girl who has some sort of crush on me or something, which is very cute. She gets all flabbergasted when I pull the dominant card on her. So, when she won a paddle in a raffle, she tempted me that I get to spank her with it someday. Pshh, someday. I grabbed her by the hair and pushed her over a barstool and gave it to her right there. I smacked her so hard once, that everyone around us hissed, "ooooo". haha. I also made her pay $5 (since it was a fundrasier event) so that I could give her a flogging. She made the mistake of saying, "Is that all you got?" when I was warming her up, however, she learned what a no-no that is by the end of the flogging. Her response after it was over was, "I didn't realize that a flogging could hurt."
Several of us ganged up on her that night. One of the doms sticking his crotch in her face while she was immobilized over the barstool, another spanking her ass with a paddle while I had her hair, pulling her into my cleavage. It was a fun evening.
I've been having scenes here. Not nearly as regularly as I did in Reno, of course. I do miss it greatly. I miss my dungeon the most, but I'm working on that issue now. It's time to find a house. I've been looking online and am finally meeting with realtors to view the houses in person. I should have my own place sometime between August 15th and September 1st. I look forward to throwing a play party or even just hosting a munch there.
What started out as a crappy night a couple of weeks ago, turned out to be an interesting evening. Went to the Friday night munch. It was basically uneventful. We were supposed to go sing karaoke afterwards, but there was a horrible band playing till like 1:00 and we just couldn't handle it anymore. So my buddy E and I went across the way to another bar where her boss's band was playing. The band was amazingly upbeat and just created so much energy. The bass player was grinding on his guitar and I told E, "I'd like to be his guitar." We laughed about it, but after they stopped playing, I went to introduce myself to the bass player. He asked me to stick around while they cleaned up then invited us to go to a strip club. So we ended up at Treasures, which was a nice place. I'd love to have it for myself. Looked like a castle in a way. The guy ended up more interested in the strippers rather than me, and would pay me a sentence or two about every 20 minutes promising to get out of there soon, so I snuck out on him. Sorry, but I have too big of an ego to be ignored. Later, he told E that he wished I would've stuck around and that hopefully I'll come back to see him again soon. Yea, whateva buddy. haha. E basically told him, "Look dude, you don't just ignore a girl like that." She's such a cool friend.
I'm sure there's tons of stuff I'm forgetting to put in here and other stuff I really can't talk about publically either, but all in all, life is good here in Vegas still. I don't regret moving here one bit. Wish all my friends from Reno could've come with me. |
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| my party life |
[Jun. 18th, 2006|11:44 am] |
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I have had such a blast being here in Vegas. I've only been homesick about two times. I try to keep myself very busy so I don't have time to sit and think.
I work M-Th and do nothing but work. I come home and sleep. But this is good, so I can get all that out of the way to have Friday, Saturday and Sunday to have fun.
Friday nights I've been going to Krave. I took one week off to go to a Prince tribute show that wasn't that impressive. I found an 80's club to go to on Saturday nights. The band does every 80's song perfectly and they dress like Devo. The female singer is a dominatrix and carries a riding crop. The theme is SM based and a very funny show. They crack jokes and speak in this dorky German accent. I talked with the lead male singer on break and told him I'm a dominatrix, then he started talking about me on stage...saying he just met a "real" dominatrix.
When I went back again last night, I told him I needed to teach him to do a real flogging. So, when they played "The Cure", he dedicated the song to me, then gave me his pink, bungy flogger and came onto the dance floor so I could flog him there. It was so fun. When I left around 2:00 a.m., the dominatrix said "Bye, Mistress Sierra. Next week you'll have to bring your toys down." I was all over that. It was funny to see the whole audience look at me on the way out. I'm such an attention whore. Too bad I'm not doing this professionally anymore, it would've been great advertising.
I'm grateful to have an entourage when I go out. I've managed to meet a lot of friends here and I drag them out partying with me. We have such a great time.
I go to a Friday night SM munch and sit with one new person each week and get to know them better. After this last Friday's munch, I went out with a group of the members to karaoke. We had a really great time. One of the guy's subs asked me to sing "White Flag" by Dido for him, so I did. To reciprocate, he got up and sang "I'm a sweet transvestite" from Rocky Horror for me. It was the greatest!
I met a sub online here before I actually came down. We've been chatting for about two months now. I met him in person at the Friday night munch and thought he was even more good looking in person than his picture online. He turned out to be intelligent and interesting as well. We finally made a break-through yesterday and have made the power exchange happen. I really enjoy his company and am looking forward to that relationship.
I went and bought a black vinyl apron with leopard print fur trim today online. It's so awesome. I can't wait to see it on my sub cooking for me. heh.
Life is good here. |
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| Amazing LV nights |
[May. 27th, 2006|04:35 pm] |
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After working so hard at my new day job, four 10's and eight hours in driving time, I decided to reward myself with a night out on the town last night.
First, my friend azriel took me to dinner at the Outback, my favorite place, where I managed to have a wonderful steak and stay on my diet. I've lost another five pounds this week. Now if I can just stay on it for another year, I might actually hit my goal.
Then we went to the munch. I sat with a friend I recently met and had a great chat. He asked me for direction on some SM items and I agreed to give him some classes. I met another person who was kinda scary. A TS who ended up following me from the time she met me and offered herself for a scene and almost tried to invite herself to Krave nightclub with me, but I never gave her the chance. I ended up avoiding her. I don't mind meeting new people, but when they get overly eager like that, it scares me away...smothers me.
My friend azriel totally catered to me the whole time we were together. She takes such good care of me. She kept getting me drinks and emptying my ashtrays. She really is a great submissive and anyone who ends up with her will be a very lucky person.
I somehow managed to talk three friends into going to Krave with me. I was going to go by myself, but apparently, I'm persuasive enough and they went, so I didn't have to kick it alone. Not that I'm one to ever end up alone, because I make friends very easily, even though it's nerve-wracking sometimes.
I had a total blast at Krave. I love being around others like me, meeting new people, being flirty with everyone and dancing, feeling totally energetic. I see my gorgeous DJ each Friday and blow him kisses or give him a hug when he comes in to play his music. That's about all I can hope for from him, but it's something to brighten my night. Also, Don Henrie is a regular at club and apparently has gotten to know my face, because he smiles, waves and/or hugs me when I see him now. He's just another pretty face that hangs out at club and the star struck sensation has gone away now. It's nice to feel that I fit in here now.
I made the mistake of giving my phone number to what I thought was a submissive guy at club. However, he turned out to be one of the desperate, overly-aggressive ones, and called my phone and texted me about seven times last night before I ended up getting home. Scary stalkers, I tell ya.
Surprisingly, the sub I've been interested in from Vegas from over three years ago called me at midnight and told me that his hours changed and he's been working 20 hours. I called him back to tell him I was gonna kick his ass for cancelling on me a second weekend. He called back to say that he'd be there to pick me up right then if I wanted. Therefore, at 3:00 I got picked up in his yellow Porche in front of Krave and we drove to his house and had a wonderful time. He drove me back to my car at about 5:30 and I got home at 6:00 this morning.
My roommate is making dinner tonight for a guest and has invited me to eat with them. Nice to be cooked for. I reciprocate by doing the dishes if he cooks.
Then I'm off to another club tonight for another party session called Subversion at the Aruba, another gothic venue.
So yea, all in all, I'm having a wonderful time here. I've managed to get used to the weather so far. I'm not sure how I'll handle the 120 days here in the summer, but that's not for awhile yet. |
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